i’m sorry…
learn how to say (and really mean) these words guys. your mom is so much better at it than i am. she can honestly look at her part in any situation (well, almost any) and lead with humility and grace. me…i often rationalize and make excuses to the bitter end just to prove something, usually out of my insecurities. i want to be right, i want to be powerful, i want to be perfect, i want to be in control and “i’m sorry” takes all that away from me and puts me in a place of vulnerability. “i’m sorry” says i’m human, i screwed up, i blew it, and i acknowledge i hurt you. ouch.
most people would admit you’re the most honest at home and with those you love which means our family and close friends often get the “worst” (or most authentic) versions of us. this is probably an area that reverses that trend because as difficult as it is to say “i’m sorry” at home, it’s even more difficult to say at work. jobs and work environments are based on performance…you actually get to keep your job by performing well and accomplishing as much as possible in as little time as possible for as little money as possible. “i’m sorry” reveals and acknowledges human weakness and imperfection making us feel like our job and perceived value, provision and security are at risk.
don’t buy the lie kids…
“i’m sorry” unites…”i’m sorry” heals…”i’m sorry” brings freedom…”i’m sorry” acknowledges dependence on jesus and his gift of forgiveness and grace…
do you need to say “i’m sorry” to anyone?!?!
